I didn't know.  I honestly didn't get it until I had her. When my firstborn, my Lily, was handed to me for the very first time... all pink and wrapped up in that cozy little blanket, I finally got it.   It just kicked in.  That incredibly FIERCE instinct... the one that trumps all others.  The one that wants to shout from the rooftops, "This is MY … [Read more...]